優(yōu)秀美文欣賞：保持快樂(lè)的15個(gè)法寶

　　摘錄：不要糾結(jié)于自己如果做得更好，會(huì)怎么樣，已經(jīng)發(fā)生的事無(wú)法改變。做不好是有原因的。吸取教訓(xùn)，要明白對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)重要的事會(huì)在適當(dāng)?shù)臅r(shí)候來(lái)臨。

　　優(yōu)秀美文欣賞：保持快樂(lè)的15個(gè)法寶

　　New year. Happier me。 　

　　新的一年，讓自己更快樂(lè)。

　　I've never been a huge fan of the resolution list craze and I don't believe in holding off on pursuing goals that can be accomplished before the first of the year. That may be the overachiever in me talking. I'm all about personal development, but getting in better shape, eating healthier and spending more time with family can all start now depending on how bad you really want it right?

　　我從不是個(gè)決議清單的狂熱愛(ài)好者，而且我也不相信拖延目標(biāo)就能在年初之前完成。這可能是我心里那個(gè)完美的自己才說(shuō)的話(huà)。我只顧追求自我發(fā)展，但是讓身材變得更好，吃更健康的食物和多陪伴家人這些事情，其實(shí)都可以從現(xiàn)在就開(kāi)始了，這完全取決于你有多想去做。

　　So for the purpose of this list, I'll focus on what it all comes down to anyway -- being happy. Starting new routines, kicking old habits and living the way we really want is largely based on our desire to genuinely be the happiest person we know. Who doesn't want to be that person?!

　　所以這單子列出來(lái)的目的呢，我會(huì)專(zhuān)注于歸根究底就是要——快樂(lè)。開(kāi)始新計(jì)劃，改掉舊習(xí)慣，過(guò)我們想過(guò)的生活，這些大部分取決于我們有多想真正成為我們所知的最快樂(lè)的人。誰(shuí)不想變成那樣的人呢?!

　　Before we raise our champagne flutes and toast to the beginning of the New Year, here are 15 ways we can be happier when it's time to greet 2015.

　　在我們舉起香檳酒，共慶新年伊始之前，給出以下15個(gè)能讓我們?cè)谟?015年之際變得更快樂(lè)的方法。

　　1.Be more honest and open with yourself。

　　更真誠(chéng)開(kāi)放的對(duì)待自己。

　　What do you really want to do with your life? Is the current path you're on something you're passionate about or are you doing it because society's roadmap told you so? Stop getting in more debt attending a grad school program that does not align with your passion。

　　你究竟想要怎樣對(duì)待你的人生呢?你現(xiàn)在所走的路是你為之熱情奮斗的嗎?或者只是循規(guī)蹈矩的。不要為了一個(gè)自己沒(méi)有熱情的學(xué)科項(xiàng)目而負(fù)債累累了 。

　　2.Say no to time-wasters and space-fillers。

　　不要浪費(fèi)時(shí)間，也不要為了填補(bǔ)寂寞而隨意交友。

　　Your days are valuable and should only involve valuable things and people. You can't be everywhere at once and you can't be everything to everybody. Choose what and who is deserving of your time and let the rest fall by the wayside。

　　你的每一天都很寶貴，應(yīng)該留給有價(jià)值的人和事。你不能一下子去所有地方，也不能成為每個(gè)人所依賴(lài)的全部。選擇值得做的事，值得愛(ài)的人，其他的就順其自然吧。

　　3.Slow down and enjoy the little moments。

　　放慢腳步，享受短暫時(shí)光。

　　Stop being too busy to taste the flavors in your food, to hear yourself think, to watch the sunset or to listen to the words of your favorite song。

　　不要因?yàn)樘α诉B品味食物，聆聽(tīng)自己內(nèi)心，看日落，聽(tīng)自己最?lèi)?ài)歌曲的時(shí)間都沒(méi)有了。

　　4.Take more risks。

　　多冒點(diǎn)險(xiǎn)。

　　Seriously. Get out there and get messy. Make mistakes and fail a few times. Fail again after that. Let the challenges help build your character because the success that follows will be worth it。

　　我是說(shuō)真的。出去闖蕩一番。犯點(diǎn)錯(cuò)誤，讓自己失敗幾次。然后再失敗。讓挑戰(zhàn)磨練自己的品格，因?yàn)殡S之而來(lái)的成功是值得的。

　　5.Assess your circle of friends。

　　評(píng)估你的朋友圈。

　　Are you constantly giving and listening to other's drama and not receiving anything in return? Do the people you lean on really support and uplift you? Do you genuinely feel like they have your best interest at heart? Remember, the five people you spend time with the most are a telling sign of who you are。

　　你是不是一直都在分享和聆聽(tīng)別人八卦的事，卻沒(méi)有什么回報(bào)?你所依靠的人真的支持你嗎?你真得覺(jué)得他們把你放在第一位嗎?記住，花最多時(shí)間和你在一起的五個(gè)人代表了你是怎樣的人。

　　6.Realize the past can't be changed。

　　要知道過(guò)去無(wú)法改變。

　　Like ever. Stop reliving what could have been or obsessing over how the situation may have played out differently if you would have gotten one more word in or reacted better. It didn't work out for a reason. Take the lesson from it and find comfort in knowing that what's meant for you will come in due time。

　　永遠(yuǎn)都不能。不要糾結(jié)于自己如果做得更好，會(huì)怎么樣，已經(jīng)發(fā)生的事無(wú)法改變。做不好是有原因的。吸取教訓(xùn)，要明白對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)重要的事會(huì)在適當(dāng)?shù)臅r(shí)候來(lái)臨。

　　7.Find the time to help someone in need。

　　留點(diǎn)時(shí)間幫助有困難的人。

　　Lend a listening ear or a firm shoulder to lean on. You never know when the person doing the needing will end up being you。

　　學(xué)會(huì)傾聽(tīng)或是給別人一個(gè)堅(jiān)實(shí)的肩膀來(lái)依靠。你不會(huì)想到什么時(shí)候自己也會(huì)成為那個(gè)需要幫助的人。

　　8.Stop making excuses for not living out your dream。

　　不要為沒(méi)有實(shí)踐自己的夢(mèng)想而找借口。

　　If others can do it, so can you. A few years from now, you'll be upset with yourself for all the time you wasted and find yourself stuck dwelling on what could have been。

　　別人可以做到的，你也可以。幾年之后，你會(huì)為自己所浪費(fèi)的時(shí)間所懊惱，而且發(fā)現(xiàn)自己深陷‘本來(lái)可以做的事情的細(xì)想’的泥潭。

　　9.Be happy for others。

　　替別人感到高興。

　　Being jealous or fake happy is draining. Genuinely be happy for other's success because you'll want them to be happy for you when you share your good news。

　　嫉妒或是假裝很開(kāi)心是很累的。真心替別人的成功感到高興是因?yàn)槟阆Ｍ诜窒碜约汉孟⒌臅r(shí)候，他們也能替你感到高興。

　　10.Give what you'd like to receive。

　　給予就是獲得。

　　If you're seeking compassion, show it to others. What goes around, always comes back around。

　　如果你想被同情，你就去同情別人。給予就是個(gè)圈，有予就有得。

　　11.Leave expectations at the door。

　　不要對(duì)別人抱有期待。

　　People grow, change and make mistakes. Some people will help you while others will attempt to bring you down. Don't expect too much from anyone either way. The only person's actions and mind you can control is your own。

　　人成長(zhǎng)，改變，犯錯(cuò)。有些人會(huì)幫助你，而其他人試圖擊垮你。不要對(duì)他們報(bào)太大期待。你能控制的只有自己的行為和思想。

　　12.Validate yourself。

　　證明你自己。

　　Don't worry about what others think or don't think of you. What weight does their opinion carry anyway? Think highly of yourself and give yourself permission to be great。

　　不要擔(dān)心別人怎么看你。他們的意見(jiàn)又有多少分量呢?高度贊揚(yáng)自己，讓自己有機(jī)會(huì)變得優(yōu)秀。

　　13.Stop settling。

　　不要安定下來(lái)。

　　Being single is better than being unhappy and working 80 hours a week. Doing something you love is better than working eight hours a week doing something you hate。

　　單身總比不快樂(lè)的每周工作80小時(shí)要強(qiáng)。做一些你喜歡做的事總比每周八小時(shí)做一些自己討厭的事情強(qiáng)。

　　14.Respect your own privacy。

　　給自己留點(diǎn)私人空間。

　　Keep some things to yourself. Not everyone needs to know every detail about your relationship or what's going on at your job, even if they are family and friends. Savor certain moments despite the burning desire to show and prove。

　　留一點(diǎn)東西給自己。并非所有人需要知道你戀愛(ài)關(guān)系的所有細(xì)節(jié)，或是你工作上發(fā)生了什么，即使他們是你的家人和朋友。即使自己非常想要告訴別人，證明給別人看，也要給自己留一些時(shí)間，讓自己好好享受。

　　15.Live in your own purpose。

　　不從眾。

　　Don't follow the crowds. Trying to emulate others deters you from that special path you were meant to take. Be inspired from their journey and put that energy into who you were meant to become。

　　不要隨波逐流。試圖努力趕上別人的過(guò)程會(huì)讓你偏離自己特定的人生軌道。讓自己被別人的人生旅途所鼓舞，并為自己的人生道路不斷奮斗。