摘錄：你知道積極和消極的人之間有什么區(qū)別嗎？積極的人受到別人的成功的鼓勵(lì),他們看到那些非常優(yōu)秀的人會(huì)問(wèn)自己,“我能向他們學(xué)習(xí)什么呢?“消極的人嫉妒甚至為到他人的成功感到威脅。消極的人,當(dāng)別人成功,這意味著他們是失敗的。

　　雙語(yǔ)閱讀美文：積極和消極的人之間的區(qū)別

　　1. “Failure is part of learning.”

　　Positive people view failure as an opportunity to learn and get better. They understand that failure is an event, and doesn’t define who they are. Negative people are emotionally disabled by failure because they allow it to define who they are. They fail to understand that it’s part of the learning and growing process.

　　“失敗是學(xué)習(xí)的一部分。”

　　積極的人認(rèn)為失敗是一個(gè)學(xué)習(xí)和變得更好的機(jī)會(huì)。他們明白,失敗是一個(gè)事件,不會(huì)以失敗決定他們是誰(shuí)。消極的人是感情失敗的殘疾人,因?yàn)樗麄冊(cè)试S它來(lái)決定他們是誰(shuí)。他們無(wú)法理解,這是學(xué)習(xí)和成長(zhǎng)過(guò)程的一部分。

　　2. “I can do hard things.”

　　“我可以做困難的事情。”

　　Positive people love to be challenged. They understand that there is no growth without struggle. Positive people embrace difficulty, and look for ways to overcome them. Negative people love the easy road. Because obstacles increase the likelihood of failure, they try to avoid them like the plague. To negative people, hard times don’t make you, they break you.

　　積極的人喜歡被挑戰(zhàn)。他們明白, 沒(méi)有斗爭(zhēng)就沒(méi)有增長(zhǎng)。積極的人擁抱困難,想方設(shè)法克服它們。消極的人喜歡容易的路走。因?yàn)檎系K增加失敗的可能性,他們盡量避免像瘟疫一樣。對(duì)于消極的人,困難時(shí)期不會(huì)成就你,他們削弱你。

　　3. “I still have a lot to learn.”

　　“我仍然還有很多東西要學(xué)。”

　　Positive people love to learn. They understand information evolves, and what used to work 10-years ago, might not be effective today. Negative people believe they know it all, and are less likely to welcome new information if it contradicts what they believe. They care less about what’s right, and more about who’s right.

　　積極的人喜歡學(xué)習(xí)。他們了解信息的發(fā)展,和今天比起來(lái), 10年以前可能不會(huì)那么有效率。消極的人認(rèn)為他們知道這一切,如果他們相信的東西與新信息相矛盾他們不太歡迎新信息。他們不太關(guān)心什么是對(duì)的,更多關(guān)于誰(shuí)是對(duì)的。

　　4. “She is inspiring!”

　　“她是鼓舞人心的!”

　　Positive people are inspired by the success of others, they look at those who are excelling and ask themselves the question, “What can I learn from them?” Negative people become jealous and threatened by the success of others. To negative people, when others succeed it means they are failing.

　　積極的人受到別人的成功的鼓勵(lì),他們看到那些非常優(yōu)秀的人會(huì)問(wèn)自己,“我能向他們學(xué)習(xí)什么呢?“消極的人嫉妒甚至為到他人的成功感到威脅。消極的人,當(dāng)別人成功,這意味著他們是失敗的。

　　5. “What can I do better?”

　　“我怎么才能做得更好?”

　　Positive people embrace feedback. Because they are always striving to get better, they are open to learn anything that will enhance their skill set. Negative people get offended when they receive correction or feedback. Instead of seeing it as means to improve, they interpret feedback as a sign of their incompetence.

　　積極的人接受反饋。因?yàn)樗麄兛偸桥ψ兊酶?他們?cè)敢鈱W(xué)習(xí),提高他們的技能。消極的人會(huì)生氣當(dāng)他們收到糾正或反饋。而不是將其視為改善手段,他們解釋反饋是他們無(wú)能的標(biāo)志。

　　6. “Let’s go big!”

　　“我們實(shí)現(xiàn)大夢(mèng)想!”

　　A positive person isn’t afraid to swing for the fences because they don’t fear striking out. A negative person not only thinks small, but they also try to convince others that their dreams and aspirations are too big.

　　一個(gè)積極的人不怕打全壘,因?yàn)樗麄儾缓ε麓驌?。一個(gè)消極的人不僅認(rèn)為機(jī)會(huì)渺茫,但他們還試圖說(shuō)服別人,他們的夢(mèng)想和抱負(fù)太大了。

　　7. “Have you heard about [insert name]?”

　　“你聽(tīng)說(shuō)過(guò)(插入的名字)嗎?”

　　Positive people build others up when they aren’t around. Negative people tear people down to make themselves feel good.

　　積極的人當(dāng)別人不在的時(shí)候贊美別人。消極的人讓別人流眼淚來(lái)讓自己感覺(jué)良好。